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Rainbaths & Vinegar

By April 14, 2022Reflections

It was one of those technically spring days, where I experienced all four seasons within waking hours. It started with an ethereal fog curling around the base of the mountains. Venturing outdoors in my robe, I spied shoots of green in the drab brown lawn. By noon, summery sunshine had burned away the gray, in time for autumnal winds to blow in. At dusk, snow sifted down. All day long, perhaps spurred by those tender shoots of grass, I desired rain…a true, warm spring rain, a bring-May-flowers rain, the kind of rain that thrilled me as a kid.

Where I grew up in Indiana, mudpies were not just for nursery rhymes, splashing in puddles was mandatory, and spreading arms like wings and twirling with your face to the sky, tongue sticking out to catch raindrops, was just what you did.

But there was nothing, and never will be anything quite like one of Mom’s rainy spa days. I’ve been to hoity-toity resorts where green mud slathered head to toe is reputed to give skin a healthy glow. Boy, was Mom ahead of the game. She encouraged us, clad only in our skivvies, to frolic in the downpour, roll in the mud, splatter it on one another—do all, but eat it. You never heard such laughter—the gut-level joy as palpable as the mud.

After our nourishing mud treatment we were handed a bar of Ivory soap and we literally showered in the rain. Passing inspection, including behind the ears, we were ushered into the kitchen where a speckled navy and white, canning kettle filled with rain water simmered on the stove. One by one, sometimes blue-lipped with goosebumps, we were given a thorough hair washing with rain water and vinegar.

“It will make your hair soft and silky,” Mom said, towel drying our shaggy manes until they literally squeaked.

Dressed in warm hand-me-downs, we settled inside for the rest of the rainy day. We played house, popped corn, or my sister and I gave our dolls their own spa treatment—poor things.

As we grew older, Mom proffered up a lot of home-style, shoestring-budget beauty secrets. Egg yolks, from our very own hens, beaten to a froth and applied to the face were an effective, pore tightening mask. Honey sometimes worked, too. Baking soda kept our teeth white. Empty, clean, cut out on both ends, orange juice cans turned curlers worked wonders when we no longer wanted childish rag curls. We were given so much and it cost so little, but time and ingenuity.

On some rainy spa days, the sky turned yellow-green. The maple trees moaned and bent in the wind, their leaves rustling and anxious. Safe and eagle-eyed inside, we watched for a flash or streak of lighting, counted how long before the thunder clapped, and calculated how near the storm was to our old, clapboard house.

And sometimes, the sun burst through the clouds sending fingers of light to rake the earth. On the best of days, a rainbow arced over the old barn, beside the mulberry tree.

There’s something to be said about being clean, and warm…and loved.

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23 Comments

  • Diana Lang says:

    “After our nourishing mud treatment we were handed a bar of Ivory soap and we literally showered in the rain. ”

    What imagery!

  • Diana Lang says:

    I totally know what you mean . . .

    ❤️

  • Lisa says:

    I love all your descriptions, Heidi. I can relate to the homegrown spa treatments, your “all seasons in a day” weather. There’s plenty of spa days here in the Northwest! ❤️

  • Lana Arnold says:

    Simple nature can bring so many joys! Thank you for that reminder. Your writing always paints such beautiful pictures.

    • heide says:

      You are so welcome, Lana. The memories are so vivid sometimes. And today, I’m looking out at a fat red robin sounded by trees laden with snow. Spring and winter collide once again. Xo

  • NITA REID TRACY says:

    Heide, I loved this story every step of the way. I twirled in the rain in my skivvies, laughed and spun and stuck out my tongue in the rain.I slipped in the mud and laughed. I smelled the Ivory soap and felt the fatness of the bar in my scrawny little hands. Your stories capture my mind in the most glorious of ways. I admire your ability to isolate and capture beautiful moments while knowing they are strung on the small necklace of memories of hardships and sadness. Thank you for bringing out the kid in me that gets lost in the sometimes murky waters of life. You are a master storyteller. ❤️

  • Michael says:

    Your words brought so many clear wonderful images to mind….
    thank you
    M

  • Sonia says:

    Thank you, Heide, for this gift of tender beauty.

    ❤️

    Sonia

    • heide says:

      Ahhh…tender, beauty. We all need a good dose of that, don’t we? Thank you for being such a loyal and supportive reader. It really matters.

  • Pat Dusterhoft says:

    Reminding me of my mother encouraging us to roller skate in every driveway, climb every tree in our Los Angeles neighborhood. Thank you for the memories.

  • Jessie says:

    Yes, Heidi, l could feel that rain. I only would have mud on my feet and legs! I envy you your girl siblings. My older brother would be off to Uncle Joe’s or Uncle Ray’s Farms to work and hang out with his boy cousins. I will always admire your descriptive writing and ability to see the best of your Mom! Love you, see you when spring truly arrives! Cousin Jessie

  • Tracy+L+Krushensky says:

    Heide, your writing contours up such imagery and memories! I’ve been waiting for that warm bring May -flower rain that you describe so beautifully.

    • heide says:

      Thank you for the compliment, Tracy. We are waiting…not so patiently any more for a real spring. I had to shovel snow this morning, but it’s gone pretty much now and the sun is shining. I need to stop whining and…enjoy the day while the sun shines.

  • Pat Bauer says:

    I love the depiction of your rainy spa days. I’m so glad that you have some lovely memories of childhood.

  • susan says:

    Oh Heide, your words are so close to the bone and you stay intimate while inviting us in to experience what you did, to find our own entrance to our memories, some similar to yours, some that beg us to untie the beauty in those experiences that we may have tightened away in bittersweet shrouds of the long gone with people long gone. On the first reading of this, I was left on the edge of tears and then, reading your essay again, I can only celebrate you, the warrior, the joy-giver, your visual and visionary use of the language we share and the special language of your heart. Your toughness in pursuing truth and beauty, and your tenderness moves me so. Thank you.

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